The Bad Guys Syndrome And Dating

The dating horizon is affected by the bad guy syndrome, with many people believing that the bad guy always gets the beautiful and nice one. The beautiful ones are already born when it comes to the bad guys; at least that is what the movies have made us believe. You can remember those high school days and there might be a tinge of truth in this allegation. These guys always had the most beautiful babe o their sides. The cutest girls seem to prefer the bad guy, and you cannot blame them.

Everywhere in the world things seem to come in opposite stereotypes, nice girls and bad guy, poor girl and rich guy and so on. It might come out as what nature has endowed, but the truth is that in the dating game men are always stereotypical. Men are always confused and they seem to take stereotypes very seriously, from whence they begin working on them. The laws of nature seem to suggest to us that men should be tough and heroic, yet modernity has insisted on them to be sensitive and ready to hold the baby.

The bad guys seem to have it all as you make your mind to be in touch with your sensitive side. He appears very mean, rude and has never called his girlfriend, amidst being unhelpful and has no time to show her any respect or go for dating occasions. The sad and interesting fact is that he has a fanatical following and support. Life has never been unfair. You treat your woman well and fine and you will appear soft and you have to struggle for her love, while the other guy has not time for his girl whom from what you have deciphered, has no inclination to leave his strenuous side.

The bottom-line is interest. The dating world is made up of surprises and always depicts the opposite of our expectation. It seems they are more interesting and theirs are interesting lifestyles. They have the audacity to always do what they want. They well answer to nobody and always go where their heart tell them to. Theirs is an interesting life. On the other hand, start doing what you are told more so in your dating instances, follow the rules and respect the constitution and you will appear like one hell of a dull might of flesh and blood. The mavericks hold all the interest while the straight among us lack in the facility.

What hurts the conforming man is that he gives all the best into the relationship, and the fruits are very bitter, if there are any. The woman will treat her indifferently more so when he depicts his emotions in their dating life. Let the other guy appear; rigid, noncommittal and seemingly a block of wood when it comes to emotions and the girl he is dating, who might be the cutest if compared with yours, will always be answering to any of his whims and even if she will be complaining to her friends about him, she will never leave his side.

You might be finding it rough on the dating scene with this kind of competition. What you can do is that you can go back to the dating relationship drawing board and make some specifications and changes, then after perfecting yourself to what you want, you can start experience your love life the way you want it.

By: Francis K Githinji
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