The Man In The Mirror

Hot date for tonight? So what’s the plan? Well, let’s see, it’s a lazy Saturday afternoon, so a pretty good call would be watching college football in the morning, maybe some re-runs of Seinfeld in the afternoon and then, if you’re really on top of things, hitting the gym for a quick workout before the big night. Then, it’s the ole’ standby “S.S.S.” theory of date preparation (for the uninitiated, this would be the "s*#!, shower and shave" theory) and you’re golden! Is there anything wrong with this routine? No, not really, but there are a couple of things you’ll need to add to it to put yourself in the best position for dating success.

Now let’s think for a moment about what she’s doing on that same lazy Saturday afternoon, getting ready to meet you for dinner at that cute little French bistro with the outdoor seating, the heat lamps, and the great soupe à l’oignon... you know the one. Maybe she hits the elliptical in the morning, perhaps a Hatha Yoga class down at the local studio, but at some point, her attention is going to turn to what’s going on that night. And what’s going on that night is definitely you and the big date.

She’s done this before and has a routine by now, one that’s worked for her. She might decide she needs a “mani + pedi” after noticing that her BFF’s nails looked particularly shiny the other night when the two of them were out on the town, grabbing some sushi. Or she might have noticed a new hairstyle in Vogue the other day, one that just might work well with her straight bangs and now’s the perfect time to try it out. She might have a closet full of designer heels, stashed away meticulously in their original boxes, each with a descriptive label to help her better navigate through her considerable collection. What’s the perfect pair for tonight?

The nails, the hair, the shoes, she’s grown up with these things and has been paying attention to them since she was young. She’s developed her own sense of style, but she’s had a lot of help along the way: she notices other women’s heels in the financial district when she’s at work; she’s bombarded with TV, radio and internet advertising about the Brazilian Blowout; she reads a couple of fashion magazines when she has the time, but never Cosmo because it’s pretty much trash; her favorite TV show used to be Sex and the City, but the DVD box set now finds a home in the DVD caddy, along with some other things she no longer watches, but did at one time.

All of these things reinforce one thing in her mind: the nails, the hair, shoes, all of these things are extremely important, she looks at them, she notices them, she thinks about them... a lot. So, we all know what happens when you lean over with dirt under your overly long fingernails while butchering the name of your poulet rôti during dinner, she’ll just take her perfectly manicured fingers and all the things she’s ever learned about nails and gently switch them to the “off” position. ‘Cause you’re a guy and she’s gonna give you a free pass... right?

The Mirror Theory of Attraction notes what some guys have known for a while. That there is no “off” switch. That she can’t help but to pay attention on you to the same things that she pays attention to on herself. And that she won’t give you a free pass. So pay attention to those little details, you might even catch her casually giving your shoes the “once over” when she sits down to dinner.

Does cutting your nails before the big night or getting your shoes shined by the guy at the place near work guarantee success? Of course they don’t. But start seeing yourself as The Man in the Mirror and you might just increase your odds of success.

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Russian girls in bed. 33 Don'ts. Part II.

12. He does not shave.

Since women have growing beard only in very rare cases, men will never understand what suffering can deliver an innocent two-day bristle. Try rubbing your nose on the mate's chin. You will not like it.

13. He keeps kidding during sex.

Laughter is the worst enemy of sex. Having fun and gag in bed is absolutely contraindicated. In the words of another classic: "Whom are you laughing at? You're laughing at yourself!"

14. He fundamentally does not have sex in the mornings.

To our surprise, it turned out that for many women having sex with their beloved in the morning is as pleasantly as to shoot warm cream from fresh milk. Fortunately, most of men are willing to share this exquisite pleasure.

15. He has too long nails

They say that a man is not impotent so long as he has at least one safe finger. But if on that finger is a long, corny and well-bited off nail, then the sexual life can be swept to give up.

16. He keeps saying what she should do.

He is not a sergeant, and she is not a platoon of recruits. Therefore, the commands "Attention!" and "Down!" are relevant on the parade ground, but sound stupid in bed.

17. He does not care for her safety.

Perhaps, we are forced to accept the fact that condom is our duty. Not only agree to use it. Men are expected willingly to buy it in advance, carry it in their pocket and put it on (possibly insensibly).

18. He shows off the size of his penis.

Whom they are boasting before, tell me please? Whether old man Freud was right, and the women too would like to have a penis? Well okay, just remember that women do not like when the men tout it too much.

19. He painfully bites her nipples.

In the past for such things, even nursing infants were having removed their prematurely erupted teeth.

20. He turns her nipples with fingers.

Nipples, again, are not the radio selector, which is heavily adjusted to the desired wave in the hilly terrain conditions. They can only be gently kissed and nibbled.

21. He constantly pulls, squeezes and rubs her breasts.

The breast is not a joystick in a computer game. And not a melon, you have to probe to ensure its ripeness. And not the wet clothes, which must be properly squeezed. It requires a careful attitude.

22. He does acrobatics in bed.

Creativity and diversity in sex is very commendable but man should remember that his partner may not has ended up the circus school in childhood and the prospect of a leg dislocating is not tempting.

The next 11 items to be continued.

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Russian girls in bed. 33 Don'ts. Part I.

Oh, no. We do not try in any way to climb into your bed, and teach you what you should do there. Quite the contrary. We just want to tell what you should not do there. It is known that women are the beings of thin-mental organization. They may be offended by the most simple and natural things. They tend to get upset because of any nonsense, and attach importance to trifles. Of course, the better they would have been simpler. But, alas, according to the classic: "the ladies are the objective reality given us in sensation." The most unpleasant is their inherent habit of playing "partisan." Your girlfriend will be silent to the bitter end, so that to throw in your face at one point all at once: it turned out that you always gave her nothing but trouble and communication with you has long ago turned to her in a sophisticated way of self-torture. Both morally and physically. And generally... (Each of us knows how much sincere poison a woman can put in this "and generally"). We have conducted a survey among our acquaintances women. Asked them to complain about their men. They did it even with some excessive willingness, it seemed to us. The poll revealed at least 33 points that women can not stand in sex. Do not claiming to be the ultimate objective, we honestly reproduce the results.

1. He comes off too quickly.

Most women are convinced that the only male insidious is a reason for this. They think that he could easily hold out for another half an hour. He just did not want to. Because he is selfish and thinks only about himself...

2. He doesn't come off too long.

Now she thinks that her body does not excite you. And furthermore she is tired.

3. He always keeps silence.

It is known that a man loves by his eyes, and a woman by her ears. And she wants to hear sweet words by those ears. Or at least a moan, indicating the strength of his passion.

4. He is too loud.

Only one of all the interviewed women has complained for this. But very actively. "Wild expression of feelings is fine, but still remember that you are not at the stadium.'

5. He has sex with her without taking off his socks.

Why are women so upset at the sight of a naked man in socks, is unknown. To understand this is not possible, this should be remembered.

6. He unclothes very quickly.

More than anything, the women do not like to be in a stupid position. And if she is in a fur coat and boots, while you have no clothing but a condom, you both look absurdly, to put it mildly.

7. At the most critical moment he interrupts and asks her: "You already came off?"

No comments.

8. He leaves the light turned on.

Too much light makes the bedroom into the operating room. In addition, a woman can not focus on the process, and forced all the time to ensure if she looks sexy enough...

9. He does not take shower before sex.

Ernest Hemingway said that a man should smell like a man. But women disagree with this. They certainly do not expect that he will smell like fresh violets, but the rough facts of life, unfortunately, often do not excite them.

10. He runs to the shower immediately after sex.

Women are like pussy cats. Cats have a habit to rub on a loved one to leave their scent on it. And when he is defiantly in a hurry to part with her smell, she feels resentful.

11. He immediately turns away from her and falls asleep.

Gravest insult. Perhaps this is the worst thing he can do. Even if the day before he took delivery of a dozen cows, wrote his thesis and set a new world record for the hundred-meter race - it does not excuse him. From her point of view he has to cuddle her gently after sex. Otherwise, why does he lay down with her?!



The next 22 items to be continued.

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Want To Know If She Is Interested In You

Who says understanding women is easy? Most of us guys go through the “School of Hard Knocks”, learning by trial and error, eating a lot of humble pie along the way, before tasting the sweet fruit of success in our encounter with women. If you can decipher her signals, you will be able to cut down the learning time by at least 50% and at least double your success rate from now.

Here are her body signals you need to pay attention to:

(1) Watch where her body is facing

If she is facing towards you, she is interested in what you are saying. When you are talking with her, she is looking into your eyes, her shoulders are square with yours, her legs are facing in your directions and she is smiling, you can be very sure she is very interested in you.

(2) Watch her feet and legs

You can be very certain she is very keen on you when she points her feet towards you when talking to you. Besides this, she will also show off her legs to guys she wants. She knows guys are interested on a woman’s breasts, butt and legs. Therefore, when she is talking to a guy she likes, she will try to make her breasts, butt and legs look as attractive as possible. He is hinting that either she is interested in what you have to say or she wants to move your relationship t a deeper, more intimate level.

(3) She dangles her shoe on the tip of her toe

If you see this signal, it is a clear green light for you to “go for it”. When a woman is talking to you and dangling her shoe by the tip of her toe, she is probably fantasizing about you in some way. This does not necessarily mean something sexual. It simply means you have her full, uninterrupted attention and she is very attracted to you.

(4) The direction she blows her cigarette smoke

The more she goes out of her way to make you comfortable, the more she values your attention. She is very interested in you when she does the following things:

(a) Blowing her smoke away from you, turning her head to show you her neck
(b) Turning her body or any kind of movement so that either of you can get closer, or facing each other, during a conversation. Sometimes she will pretend she wants to “hear you better”.
(c) Stepping out of your way, or moving over so you have a comfortable seat.

(5) She shows her wrists and neck

Any time you see her tilt her head or expose her wrist to you, you can be sure she is trying to catch your eye. These are acts of seduction to make her looks vulnerable to indicate she wants her desired man to protect her. She is totally in to you when she leans her head back; she is leaning into you and laughing “too much” at a joke.

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Which Guys Are Being Chosen By Beauties For Bed?

Sometimes the girls, even blue-eyed, cherubic and golden-haired are thinking about sex. Yes, about exactly the same gross and obscene things that the men dream of. Sometimes we want to find someone who could occasionally just give a pleasure and would not try to muddle our brain with talks about love to the grave. A man to whom it is easy and nice to answer "yes", even if we are still almost not acquainted with him... Who is it, indeed who comes to us in the night fantasies? There is a generalized ideal of a man, which most girls would like to see in their bed. It was discovered recently: all my friends follow the same criteria in the choice, they are very nearly my equal.

Woman loves by the ears. Therefore, it is essential for women what a man is to talk about. Stupid handsomes look good only on television and magazine covers. In life, as a rule, these guys do not excite. Sexy man must be able to tell not only jokes or stories about football, but also about serious life issues, and books on the events taking place in the world. It is cool, when the young man has more or less developed world outlook and he can make his original point of view. In general, higher education is welcome. Although, of course, there are extremely intelligent, interesting individuals without this.

If this round (intellectual) has passed, start to look at the body. The phrase that a man should look a little better than monkey is stupid myth. The man, much more the lover, must be beautiful. With specific males beauty.


First, nobody wants untidy. Rumpled "sports" clothes, old shoes, cheap perfume, a bad haircut are the typical attributes of a looser. Clothes may not even be particularly expensive or new, but it must go very well with man. After all, if there are some doubts in your own taste, you can go to the store with someone who knows how to choose clothes. It is very important to choose the right scent, for many girls a pleasant aroma "works" just overnight. So I recall: for a man there is nothing to be ashamed of in buying a perfume, but it is necessary! And even if the smell is not sharp, but fresh and/or soft. Tender and passionate like all the future communication with the females.

Under the pretty wrapping me to expect a sweet content. I am talking about a beautiful body. This required attribute is very important. We will leave for rich sponsors the sagging beer belly. The men with "tummy", even a little, definitely are not suitable as lovers. In addition, we need muscles. A woman wants to feel weak in the hands of her man. It does not need the ideal Apollo: it is just unpleasant to embrace a weak or feel excess fat in the body of the lover. Therefore, those who do not look strong or have not gone to the gym can not be chosen in lovers by the beauties. Believe me, the aesthetics of the male body is very important for most women.

In principle, to drawn from the loose flaccid body a sexy commodity is really well, it takes from one and a half to two months. For example, my beloved, just followed the simple recommendations on bodybuilding. He now looks cool. Strength of will is another mandatory quality of the hero-lover. So, if you do not see yourself in the portrait painted here, provide a bit of effort and still make you a sexy man. It is so pleasant to be a hero of women's erotic fantasies.

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How To Instantly Attract Women With This Unusual Secret (only A Few Men Know This)

Attracting women is not necessarily a difficult thing. However, if you do everything right, but one thing wrong, you will kill the attraction dead. Attraction is a "true-false" deal, not a "multiple choice"- 100% is an "A," 99% is an "F."

Most men understand on some level that if you want to create initial attraction with women, you have to smile. Almost every attraction and seduction guru out there tells men they have to learn to smile at women - and they are half right. You DO have to smile in order to attract women, but if you do it the wrong way (like most men do) you will repel women.

When most guys hear "put a smile on your face and you will attract women," they plaster a dopey salesman's grin on their face. They show their teeth to every woman they meet and then wonder why these women won't give them the time of day. You see, not only do you have to smile in order to attract women, you've got to smile the right way.

The #1 Way to Stop Attracting Women

Let's talk about the wrong way first. When it comes to attracting women, it is just as important to get rid of your attraction killers as it is engage in attractive behavior. Like I said, you can do everything right, and one thing wrong, and that one thing will kill the attraction dead.

When most men smile at a woman, they do it either in a phony way, or in a "sterile" way. What I mean by sterile is this: they see a woman, and smile at her, but they hold back their feelings of attraction. The woman sees a guy with a safe, neutral smile, a guy who reminds her of Mr. Rodgers, and she smiles back, keeps on walking and that's that.

The Right Way to Smile So You Can Instantly Attract Women

The right to smile at an attractive woman is to use what I call the "naughty boy smile." This is a smile that immediately transmits to her "this interaction IS about attraction, and I make no excuses for my desires as a man." It is often more of a seductive, almost arrogant smirk than a smile, with you looking at her straight in the eye.

The emotion you transmit to her when you do this is, "I'm comfortable with myself as a man. You're a sexy woman, and yes I'm attracted to you." Instead of making the interaction sneaky or covert, it's an overt interaction. Your attitude should be, "YES, this is about attraction, and yes I know we will both enjoy it."

When you smile at a woman in this manner, with this intent, the effect is electrifying. In a split second, you're put into a completely different category of man, far away from the nice, safe, predictable guys she's used to meeting. Suddenly, you're a bit dangerous, a bit unpredictable, and completely attractive.

How Do I Know The "Naughty Boy" Smile Will Instantly Attract Women?

For years and years I used the safe guy smile in my futile attempts to attract women. Finally, I started paying attention to the gestures and facial expressions of friends who were very good at attracting women. Everywhere we went they had girls around them. The one thing that stood out like a beacon in the night was they all had their own version of the "naughty boy smile," and they all used it to devastating effect.

When I started to put it work myself, the reactions I got from women were immediately different than what I'd gotten before. All of a sudden women WERE interested in me. Instead of being just a "safe friend" and a "nice guy," women thought of me as an attractive man… and my life got much, much more exciting.

Is This All You Need to Know About Attracting Women?

Of course not. If that was the only thing you need to know about attracting women, then I wouldn't be able to create eBooks, special reports and a controversial email newsletter to help you attract women now. But knowing how to smile the right way IS a vital piece of the attraction puzzle. If you start implementing it, you will see immediate results. It will take you a bit of time to find your own, unique "naughty boy smile." But once you have it, you have it. And then your interactions with women will start to take on a very different… and very exciting… tone. The "naughty boy smile" is one of the most powerful things I've ever discovered when it comes to instantly attracting women.

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4 Secret Ways To Sexually Attract Women

Trying to sexually attract women can be incredibly easy for some people, and yet incredibly hard for others. Some seem to think that trying to sexually attract women is pointless, as it is something that is out of their control. While it is true that the rules for trying to sexually attract women are different than what men would want themselves, it is possible to tweak your first impression in an attempt to sexually attract women in a better and more efficient way.

By highlighting certain points of yourself, and lessening others, you can sexually attract women in a way that you did not realize. By following these tips, learning to sexually attract women will be easier than you thought it could be.

#1 - Focus on How you Look, but Only to a Point

While looks are not necessarily the most important thing when trying to sexually attract women, it is still an important factor. There are many people who expect looks to be the only factor in terms of sexual attraction; these are usually men, as many men find looks as the most important aspect of sexual attraction. When trying to sexually attract women, however, you must change your view on the situation. With that being said, it is still incredibly important to make sure that you look your best. Anyone who attempts to say that looks are unimportant are wrong; while it may not be the most important thing, those who are more attractive catch your eye easier. This is a great way to make an important impression before you even open your mouth to speak.

#2- Focus on your Personality

Women are sexually attracted to men who have personalities. Sure, they want someone who looks good, but they also want someone who intrigues them. Trying to sexually attract women relies on more than just looks alone. By making certain aspects of your personality shine, you can help to work on sexually attract women. Be a gentleman; offer her a drink, a snack, or a seat. Showing positive personality traits will make you even more attractive to women.

#3- Focus on Conversation

Conversation is easily the ultimate way to get your personality across to a woman. By having conversation, she can learn more about you, and can become more intrigued by you. If you are trying to sexually attract women, you must be able to hold a conversation; women want more than just looks, as they want someone they can talk to. Believe it or not, the ability to talk is incredibly attractive to women.

#4- Focus on Humor

Being able to make a woman laugh is one of the quickest ways to gain her approval. By making sure you focus on being funny (when appropriate), you can help yourself to sexually attract women. Do not go overboard, however, as too much humor can be a put off.

If you are trying to sexually attract women, follow these simple steps. By following these steps, you can make sure that you are taking the correct steps to sexually attract women.

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Five Fundamental Women's Demerits.

First demerit.

The woman does not know what she wants. Never. At any moment. Neither in trifles(which a dress to take - that reddish or this with a discount?), nor in global affairs (to marry Pete or take vacation in August). The woman is not guessing her secret desires. Because there is a big gap between what is imposed by a gloss and what she really needs.

Second demerit.

The woman thinks that she knows what she wants. A woman needs happiness. These words are spoken by her. But if you ask her: "What is your happiness?" - she will immediately efface herself. Well, she will say: a man ... money ... beauty ... But the man - this is not only the serenades under the moon, but also shirts, kitchen and soccer. Money - this is what is always lacked. A beauty - is what the others will have still more. And, when a woman receives either one or all ingredients of her imaginary happiness together, she feels cheated. Because - "not the case" and "not that".

Third demerit.

Woman is suggestible. When a competent approach is you can put anything in her head. And she will sincerely believe it. Then try to impress upon her something back - she will believe it again. In other words, a woman has not her view and her principles. And an unscrupulous person is a dangerous partner. Despite the seemingly all pluses.

Fourth demerit.

The woman feels a privileged person. And trying to sit on two chairs. A woman wants to have at her disposal all the pluses of Modern possession of equal rights and the chivalrous relations simultaneously. At home it is expressed this way: she wants to receive flowers from you, recognition and irrefutable evidence of your attitude to her, but does not want to wash your socks and cook for you. And you just try to indicate it! She will immediately explain to you how far from proud rank of the Man you are!

Fifth demerit.

The woman believes she has the right to refashion you. Under her own ideal, the ideal of neighbor, colleagues, her former, her father. You do not know how to sleep well, how to eat, to talk, to make court to her, to say compliments and to regulate your life. And be assured - she would make titanic efforts to destroy your weaknesses! You are so far from perfectness, so negligible, that simply obliged to kiss her legs day and night and thank her enthusiastically.
And if you do not understand this, you - complete nonentity and loser.

P.S. It is understandable that not all women are equal. Some of them have more beautiful breasts.

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Women's Curiosity.

"Women know how to keep secrets, but together" - German proverb says. Pope John XXII had the opportunity to see for himself the women's boundless curiosity. Nuns of a convent asked him once that he gave them permission to practice confession among themselves, rather than before men, referring to female weakness, feeling of pudency, etc. Pope didn't mind to give them this privilege, but he was confused that the Confession required complete secrecy, and if a woman is capable for this, even a nun? And he decided to conduct a little experiment.

He had nuns believe that he would think about their request carefully and most likely will perform it. After some time he brought a box, in which he locked a bird, and requested under great secrecy them to preserve the box just a few days, but he mood-strictly ordered to leave any idea to inquire about what was concluded in a box, even threatened by excommunication for disobedience…

Once he left, invincible women's curiosity took the upper hand: the box was opened and the bird, of course, flew away. After that, Pope came to the convent and said that he brought asked by nuns the permission about confession, but he only wanted first to look at his box. Once found it empty, he already had the right to refuse applicants.

Booty Upward, Breasts Drew Aside. Evidence That Woman Fell In Love.

When a woman meets a lover, it becomes immediately noticeable to many people - her buns become upwards, breasts drew aside. Becoming desperate for a man, she immediately, automatically, is trying to become the subject of dreams for other men, at least by sight.

You can talk with her about the ecology and developing countries, provide data on where and how the problems of overpopulation of the world are solved, but in her eyes read about the following: "Eh, dear, could you know where and how, more importantly, how many times just yesterday I had been happy!" The heels of such a women are now knocking singularly. Tuk-tuk, tuk-tuk, there is no previous clumsiness and vanity, they now sonorously rebound from the floor, almost soaring over land and measure off the seconds remaining before meeting with the lover.

In every song about love, she hears hints and predictions for her happy future, she might burst into tears of a platitude "I love you", delivered in cheap TV serial, which hated before. In every book a hero-lover acquires the features of her beloved blond, even if there clearly stated that he is dark-headed.
Be careful with woman in love - any trifle, any point in her address can bring tears to the poor. Now she is MOST slender, MOST beautiful and MOST sexual worldwide! Nick this down!

Money, which she used to spend for favorite eclairs and croissants, now go to the manicure, haircut, massage and hair set. Our woman in love in her pursuit of beauty becomes totally unprotected against advertising of anti-cellulite and miracle cold creams. You can see how interestedly she scrutinizes in the drugstore shelves with Chinese tea, or is sitting the second hour on the women's forum, asking essentially the same question - "Girls how to lose 5 kg? A week! Better by the evening!!!"

If a woman suddenly, without rhyme or reason started to be interested in numismatics, machines, basketball, art of seasoning a pipe or, God forbid, nanotechnology, do note - she is in love! Based on her new "hobbies" you can well imagine to draw an image of her favorite. But do not share your findings with her! I have already spoken - be careful!

Even her signature may slightly become changed. Exactly as much as her view is changed. Somewhat new flourish or stroke, as well her skittish winks, give our dear girl completely away. Has such a possibility, she would draw to signature a pair of hearts. Well, just for appearance.

Now, if at all indications an enamored woman is in front of you, be so kind, smile at her! And she will gift you by her charm in response! And this already is very important - not to fall in love with her!

Russian Brides. Why The Girls Smile Not Much.

Saleswoman from one of Russia's stores hit a psychiatric hospital due to the fact that the director smiled at her all the time. "Maybe I have shortfall," - girl tormented constantly, and her head had turned with this. It's terrible to imagine what would be with the director, if the above incident had occurred in United States.

If the motto of the American lifestyle a "Keep Smiling" can be considered, then for the Russian girls as well all Russians it would be "To smile, for what?" Russians still feel hypocritical the smiles of Western people, and they in their turn believe that Russians are morose and evil. Ever since much has changed. We now know that all this is not so simple.

Korean girl An Hyun Gin, a participant of Olympiad on the Russian language, that was held in Novosibirsk last year, wrote in her composition: "Many Koreans suggest that Russia is a very harsh country, that all Russians are closed and unsympathetic people, that they all love vodka. Now I know that this is not true. "


However, foreigners arriving in Russia, continue to note that very few Russians smile. Nothing surprising.

The difference in smiles is the difference of cultures. We do not smile, they smile. This is not good and not bad, it is so. The main is to take it to socialize with each other.

"When I am asked why I am smiling all the time, I say: I am behind the eight years of training. After all, at school, I was a member of the team of cheerleaders. As you probably know by movie these are the girls who are always smiling. We smudged teeth with petrolatum so that we were otherwise not to smile,"- American Annette Loftus tells to her Russian girlfriends.

This story is a living illustration to the Russian stereotype that the American smile - that's not quite normal and real, in any case, insincere. Foreigners do not disavow. The same Annette, who first came to the Soviet Union in 1991, as she admitted, after returning to the United States, had experienced a cultural shock when saw the smiles of compatriots. "I immediately missed unsmiling city of Leningrad," - she says.

You can imagine how those smiles affected Soviet citizens who were lucky in that time to go abroad.

In Western cultures the smile is a kind of greeting strangers, a prerequisite for human polite communication and the attempts to ensure security in the unfamiliar place with strangers.In Russia it can cause quite the opposite reaction.

A smile on incomprehensible reason put Russians on their guard. Therefore, the Russians made to believe that constantly smiling people are not very healthy: like the girl from anecdote, to which the brick fell on the head.

It should be noted that Americans were not smiling always. Roosevelt first of the American presidents began to smile in all the official photographs. His predecessors posed for photographer exactly the same tie up a position as Russian leaders. By the way, the success of Mikhail Gorbachev in the West was largely due to the fact that he was the first Soviet leader who smiled, and therefore was open to communication and not dangerous.

However, Russians not always went through the streets with gloomy faces. In memoirs noted as a feature of a new emerging Soviet society (after the Revolution of 1917) that "smile has gone." And if "gone" - then it means existed before?

A serious face of Russian brides.

"Common unsmiling - one of the striking features of Russian girls". Russian girls' smiles is not a sign of courtesy, they have not accepted smiling at strangers, and Russians do not answer by smile to smile automatically.

The paradox is that Russians smile less because of their openness…. It turns out that their gravity - it is the habit not to hide their feelings and moods. And because historically is made that the mood often is bad among Russians, then they did not intend to hide it. So the concern they have settled on the face is "common normative look of Russian man."

Just Russian smile, by definition, is for familiar people only, so it is quite difficult to teach Russian girl to keep a smile in everyday life.

Elena Vil-Williams, who worked at her time for the Coca-Cola company, says that the training for Russian and foreign managers are held quite differently.
"For example, it is suffice to say Americans: "You must be smiling." And they are smiling - she tells. - But Russian girl says: "It's disingenuous, this is bad!" Russian girl must prepare herself for such a communication, go inside to find something positive."

Russian brides are still considered the most "serious", ie, unsmiling.

Three kinds of smiles.


Smile the formal - in Western cultures it is the kind of strangers welcome. Automatism of such a smile in the West is so great that Hillary Clinton smiles to photographers even at the Princess Diana's funeral ceremony.

Commercial smile - a mandatory requirement of modern service. In Chase Manhattan Bank the announcement hangs: if our operator did not smile at you, say this doorman, he will give you a dollar.

A sincere smile - a manifestation of good feelings and good relations. The natural human reaction to the positive circumstances. This kind of smile is inherent in all human beings, regardless of cultural conditionalities. It is this kind of smile that characterized the Russian girls.



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Russian Women Adore Bald-Headed Men.

The Americans, known for their hypertrophied political correctness, thought of a euphemism to describe a bald-headed man: "hair disadvantaged". So they (in their view) tactfully conceal a compassion towards those unhappy, because a baldness is a kind of disease, which affects more than 30% of men. But do they actually suffer? You can not believe rumors, but statistics is an exact science: for a variety of data, about 40% of Russian women consider bald men attractive. It is almost half the women! It is meant not only and not so much hairless shaved head, but for the most part natural bald patch. Why it is so attractive to women?

A particular gene, as well as hormone is to blame in balding. The hormone is not simple, but of sex (testosterone), and the more of it the bigger patch is. Everyone knows and remembers everything about testosterone, but in a slightly different context: the more testosterone in a man - so he is more a man, has more sexuality. Maybe, women are distant from the concept of simple categorical syllogism, but reasoning on the basis of these two suppositions are able to do it: once you are bald - means you have a lot of testosterone - means you're a good lover. No matter, how much such a conclusion is correct, but it clearly is liked by women.

Many Russian ladies are not aware of such research, but they still are unabatedly attracted to bald men. What is this? Intuition? Looking at a bald, the woman immediately notes his pronounced top machismo. Real man does not need a complicated hairstyle, as if it distracts him from something important, but then, the shorter the hair on his head, the better and more legible and courageous image is. Perhaps this is too subjective perception, but the fact that vast numbers of Russian women go simply mad of Bruce Willis, Vin Diesel and Gosha Kutsenko - it is quite objectively. Representatives of the weak gender also like Ed Harris, Jason Statham, Andre Agassi, Maxim Sukhanov and Alexander Rosenbaum. These celebrities are unified by one thing - this is not the patch, but manhood. Of course, the point is not only in their hair, but their absence adds to image some way of unprecedented force.

Yes, force exactly! In the eyes of many women a bald man is deprived of fears and complexes man. After all, noticing signs of his balding, he did not ran to the clinic for hair transplants and did not rush to buy a chignon. He either proudly and courageously "wears" this bald patch or totally removes the remaining hair, demonstrating, thus, his determination and will. He does not grieve for irrevocably gone hair, he is not afraid to show all his smooth shiny patch…

There are women, who connects the rarity of hair on the head with the men's rare talent and intelligence of its holder: say, a lot of thinking - that's why hair gone. But this is not the biggest misconception - add glasses here, and it will turn out Moby - a talented musician and, moreover, Ph.D.… While someone associates the patch with intelligence, other - with the money. And somebody - with the one and the other (syllogism again): once bald - hence he thinks - it means that he knows how to make money. By the way, researchers also say on the relationship between hair loss and income, they counted the largest number of bald people among the financiers, bankers and lawyers…

Finally, the bald head - this is a very stylish. In order to make you sure it is enough to remember how Fyodor Bondarchuk or Yegor Druzhinin look. By the way, the very men also began to realize that the patch attaches to the exterior some sophistication. It turns out that today the haircut "zero" is in fashion. To be true, it is chosen by men with already outlined a bald patch. Indeed, - nothing is better than a miserable bald spot, surrounded by scrap of hair not yet endured. A person with chevelure a-la N. Tsiskaridze will hardly comes to mind to shave voluntarily this very head. Although who knows what awaits us (and indeed, men) in the future - humanity is progressing, moving toward maximum comfort. A bald head, this is so convenient: nor dandruff, nor lice, nor wash, nor hair do you need; trim a bitevery three days, also rub clean from dust. Not in vain the fiction-futurists describe the future human as a bald early on person.

Modern fashion is good by its democratic and diversity - from a number of trends you choose those that suit you. A head shaved like zero is far from any man. Of course, if he is actor, the hairstyle "zero" may be dictated by the creative vision. Like, for example, the Irish actor Colin Farrell or Rammstein vocalist Tily Lindemann, which were absolutely bald a few time. And, we must confess, these two looked no better without hair. Therefore, better not commit so radical experiments with your hair just for fun, and wear your patch wisely: for example, do not throw over thin straggle from one side of head to another. And to ensure that shaved head remained the smooth and shiny, and not get covered with terrible kind of bristles becoming a hairstyle, popularly known as "three days at large"…

In fact, the reasons why the representatives of excellent gender have a soft corner for bald men, are not limited with specified. How many women - and so many reasons. In general, in the rating of what women pay more attention in men, hair is at the bottom. Basically, the theme of men's appearance all women reduce to one thing - essentially, that man would be good. Trite, of course, but let someone try to argue that.

Russian Wife For Peace In Family. A Waitress For Two Hours.

Once a fairly long-drawn quarrel occurred between me and my husband. It began as always, because of trifles. But it was not going to stop itself. It had to take some decisive action. And I invented ...

Organize a dinner in a restaurant without leaving your home! Such an approach will amaze and surprise of almost any man. Moreover, this is also an opportunity to allow your fancy to play round the acting technique, transforming for one evening in a friendly and caring waitress.

Well, in order to plunge my honey in a pleasant shock, it took me:
- Couple of hours of free time before he came from work.
- Clothing, costume resembling the waitress, and a tray.
- Products.
- Beautiful cloth, kitchen utensils, napkins.
- Stationery: pen, paper and folder.
- A lamp or a candle.
- Romantic music.
- Flowers.

Here is a recipe for those who want to repeat my success.

To begin to cook a dinner of several dishes. This does not mean that you need to hold a half-day in the kitchen. A pair of simple salads, garnishes and anything meat - this is quite enough. To diversify "menu" of your restaurant, buy several different pastries, cheese, sausage, fruit, juice, wine… However, if it makes you go on the culinary feats, you can bake a pie and cook a couple of elegant and complex dishes.

And now it is time to draw up a menu. Take a few sheets of paper, stripe every sheet into two columns. In the first write the names of all dishes and drinks, which will be in your kitchen. And the second - price that he will have to pay to try a product. For example, a piece of bread would cost your beloved in a hot kiss, a glass of juice - in five compliments to "waitress", that is you. Allow your fancy to play, and you'll see how many pleasant minutes we could give each other.

Be sure to include a show in the menu. If you can dance, suggest beloved a striptease, if can sing not bad, present him with song in your performance. If the above does not have the talent, include in the list of restaurant services a massage or something else that gives your honey a pleasure. You can quote any price - a trip to a restaurant next week, buying a new coat, a husband's promise to dish up after dinner… He will yield to temptation of strip and massage!

Once the menu compiled, beautifully lay the table, light candles, turn on romantic music. In general, arrange a small restaurant at home, decorate it by all handy means. For the sake of this holiday can be to buy up balloons, flowers, aromatic candles. Put the "menu" on the table. You can even make the plate by writing the name of "restaurant" on it, hours of operation and entrance fee.

Now you only have to transform in waitress and enter into the image. The beautiful makeup, short dress, small apron, a smile on the face - and you're ready! You can add to your image a sexuality through stockings and shoes on heels. All depends on you. And now it is time to forget your name, take the sonorous nickname and be ready to astonish! Of the fact that after dinner you also will be very surprised, I humbly keep silent.

Long Legs, Big Breasts. What's more preferable?

Also read the beginning

In average the blondes are weaker physically, so at the subconscious level, we believe that to communicate with them is safer. But large breasts attracts particularly men whom his mom had breast-fed little. By the way, a large breast, on observations of geneticists, rarely combined with long legs.

- So, exhausted by a diet and disfigured the feet by sky-high "pins" we in the award, are likely to get infantile a baby-husband, who can not be reliable?
- It is true. Mature males tend to love mature women. And they, again, as a rule, are of most other figures. The age of 18-25 is an ideal time for births. During this period, breast and weight of girls are slightly increasing, decreasing length of limbs, appear rounded. When a woman is pregnant, she had little plump, a layer of fat appears, which protects the fetus, and later is a strategic reserve to make a milk. All subsequent years, up to 40, when a woman gives birth and caring for small children, her figure has changed little, because a large load requires the forces.
The age of 40-50 is a period of her social maturity.

Children grew up, they require less attention, an opportunity emerged to fully express themselves in a professional activity. At that time, the body needs no longer the layer of fat, but the psychological factor prevents to get rid of it. A well-adapted, socially active, authoritative mother of the family would not be very slim, because people unconsciously perceive a person with an impressive bodily constitution as more authoritative. And only after the age of 50, it begins a natural weight reduction.

- What threatens young girls the maniacal desire to lose weight?
- Going on a diet, or hunger, they are thereby delaying their sexual maturity, both as a function of the female body get stuck very much on the reproductive process. Blindly striving to standard, imposed on them by males far not the best, they, instead, become less attractive. Delayed sexual development leads to a deterioration in the quality of skin, hair, to a decline in sexual attraction.

To grow thin it can be used only if there is overweight, and disease together with it, if move is hard. But even then you should to act with caution. Changing your own constitution - is a long and serious process. It requires a change of diet and the whole way of life. It is not worth aspires to numerous fat burners, tablets, teas, and much more - for surgical operations, which have resorted to the most fanatically-minded representatives of wonderful gender. The Nature is very economical and extremely reasonable, it does not give us anything extra.

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Long Legs, Big Breasts. Do You Need This?

Very long legs, blonde hair, big breasts. The standard copied from Barbie doll. 60-90-60 cherished figures give young girls no rest and are guiding young (and not very) boys in their searches. In pursuit of a beautiful figure, we sometimes do not think, how the fight for an ideal appearance is reflected on our feeling. Manual therapist Vadim SAMIGULIN believes that the modern standard of beauty is conducive neither to the health of women, nor her life success.


Representations of women's beauty are slowly but constantly changing. How can one describe a modern standard?

- Any little girl will in a blink explain you, what the ratio of 90-60-90 means. Cherished figures has been a nightmare for the bigger part of female population of many countries. Thousands of girls are trying to squeeze themselves (mostly futile) in to these tough limits. They sincerely believe that to meet requirement of the model, to conform to the standard, - it is great, cool, it is a chance to circumvent their off-dimension girlfriends on the steep turn of life. Meanwhile, in this area, as in any other, a universal principle operates: the demand rise proposal. What man wants to see in his Enchantresses, that she aspires to become.

Today, one of the fashionable standards is the figure of Barbie doll: very long legs, blonde hair, big breasts. Where had such parameters taken from? Let us understand. There are adolescent girls who have long legs, because it is the time when the tubular bones shoot up very quickly. Their growth stops in the age of 16, but the body continues to grow, so that eventually the length of the legs and torso becomes approximately equal.

On the subconscious level, a man who did not quite emerge as a personality, feels insufficiently confident and strong. He prefers to have a girlfriend, which as he expects unconsciously is still emotionally untenable, and therefore does not pose a safety hazard, she will not suppress him. In other word, men who prefer women, like adolescents, in general, stopped at the stage of adolescents in their own spiritual and emotional development. With all the ensuing consequences: till they grow gray they retain adolescent selfishness, increased aggressiveness, not willing to take responsibility. And they like the blonde for the same reason. It is known that tow-head are more vulnerable to any external influences. Doctors know that for the same disease the brunettes require bigger doses of drugs than their brothers tow-head.

(To Be Continued)
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Big Bust Or Small Bust?

Some women are distressed with too small bust, the other with too large. But an optimist will always find a positive!







Women with large breasts are the optimist because:

- They always can hitch-hike
- They always are conceded the best seats in the bus
- They make a simple running jogging a very spectacular kind of sport
- They leave a magazine dry, which they read lying in the bath
- They have an additional argument of impact (to the men who is shorter)
- They can usually easy find dropped popcorn after watching the film
- They can always carry with them a bit more cash
- They always swim better
- They know where first to look in the search of earring which fell
- They rarely left without a partner for the slow dance
- They do not need to buy the cars with airbags
- It always is where to put one more can of beer

Women with small breasts are the optimist because:

- They do not cause accidents on the road every time when they bend
- They always look younger
- Drops and food crumbs are always on the napkin laid on lap
- They can always see if their shoes are clean
- They can easily sleep in prone position
- They have no problem to sit at the wheel of a small car
- They know that people can easily read the entire inscription on their T-shirt
- They believe that anything that can not fit in the hand is an unnecessary surplus
- They may to be too late to the theater and take the seat without diverting the entire row
- They can go to aerobics without risking to take Sunday punch from themselves
- They never hear the words to their address: "silicon"

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The Ideal Perfect Man

Girls constantly sigh on Ideal Partner for life, but not always are clear in their mind what is this rare creature, what should it look like, and how to recognize him in a crowd of imperfect men.

Nevertheless, there still are the properties that any girl would like to see in her elected. In the nature of men the women rarely impressed with the audacity and unceremoniously.

Basically, women appreciate the restraint, civility, sometimes even with some timidity. Perfect fellow must be a personality, smart and have a pleasant appearance, dressed well, be cleanly. However, some girls feel that external gloss - this is not the main thing, just provided that man was good.

Ideal guy should be cheerful, it should be easy to communicate with him. Girls who love not only the light colors, would like to see a man with sort of devilry. But all the girls are unanimous: women want to be with a honest, decent man, the gentleman. Some ladies act quite sensibly and value care above all, confidence, respect to women and to himself. To charm the frivolous girls, charming smile and mysterious gaze is enough.

And the most romantic nature argue: the perfect man - is man, without which you do not know how to live!



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Woman's Secret.

Women's secrets are short-lived that's right truth is truth. But there is a secret, where a woman is harder then diamond. This is: how old is a woman? She would pass more willingly through the flame or step by foot on the fragile ice, probably will rather go down in a cage with lions than name her age correctly.

And if his thought would be, could become, even evil Satan would want to understand the age of women, then he would spit and began to stutter, the picture would be the same. In the pink of youth neither chink nor even small a crack are between the age of the woman and her various papers' age. All are equal - step in step. Then such a process occurs (no, no! Entirely without her diligence!) Suddenly a "backlog" appears, so to say "a little inconsistency". The passport still goes forward, but woman is like not eager for ahead! First she is one year behind of passports, then manages to be behind for two years… I must say that she succeeds the best in such a way. And somewhere by thirty, has been to see, three years could no longer be found, as if it blows them away by wind to clear out.
And now, of course, any conversation about figures will not help. The most meticulous auditor would die, but could not find anything!And the further, neither the heart nor hand, most certainly, does suffer from stinginess. And now by forty entire five years, chuckling slightly, mysteriously disappear… Forty!
Mysterious border.
Here, every normal counting ends, because what a year may have gone, but only woman elder than forty is not enforceable! Let the time pass forward somewhere and the passport stoops and toils into a darkness, a woman does not need all this. A woman will always be over thirty… Believing in the eternal flames of spring, the women do not concede in battles. "Technique" is now such a strong that there are neither wrinkles nor gray hair! And I will not measure by any questionnaires the years women lived. Papers - significant nonsense, I trust in soul and deeds.

Women are still good for long time, while the figures become pale before them. The passport, of course, is much older, because the passports has no soul. If suddenly someone at least by stealth will say that a woman can wither, spit him in the eye, CLOUT and name a detractor!

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