The Profile On The Dating Site. How To Make It Attractive? (Part I)

Sounds ironically but the majority of profiles submitted to dating sites clearly do not meet important task conferred on them - to represent their owner and creator in all their beauty. This state of affairs had prompted me to write this article.

Well. Let us first to define some - why should we even decided to place this profile on the dating site.

Option first - just to have fun. Usually such entertainment is considered a maintaining a long term correspondence with people from the name of nonexistent person. Why?

I do not know the answer to that question. Sometimes trying just to play someone, sometimes simply because of nothing to do, sometimes trying to present oneself as "the ideal ego". Overall - this is not our option. Rather to psychologists. But we will consider the following options for details.

Often on the dating sites to gain the access to the database, people must register. Under the registration meant filling out the questionnaires and placing it on the public domain. So even if a person wants to read others' profiles - he needs to fill his own on all the rules and norms. It is easy to guess, in the process man does not want to strain severely - in fact it is just an empty formality for him, so that it's OK a various small stuff or just leave the profile untouched and he can go in search of other people.

Just say - this approach has the right to exist, but fundamentally mistaken. First, the number of "empty" profiles creates a "white noise", site is lay-up, and after a while, nice girl or boy who wants to find his destiny, is tired to look through them and simply to took from the site.

Secondly, the success of your mission to find the "only and unique one" depends not only on your efforts but also on the efforts of other people. Think yourself - a person coming to look at your questionnaire, can be looking for you exactly, coincide with all your requirements, be precisely what so brings you. But alas - the profile is empty, he did not know about you, shrugs shoulders and goes farther. Open yourself to search, and your chances to find your destiny will immediately increase by several times.

After all, even if you sleep quietly, working or walking in the street - you are looking for, your profile can be viewed and somebody is already writing that very long-awaited letter addressed solely to you.

And finally, option: the people who make all efforts to find a life partner. They have already created a profile, daily look through the fresh registrations to the site, talk with people they liked. In general, they do everything that is considered necessary. But again, a strange human psyche - very, very rarely the questionnaire is seen, which would have stopped your eyes, and rejoice the heart. Many sites already offer large number of templates to fill. All that needs to be done by human -is simply select what suits him from the list and that's all - the questionnaire, believed filled. Filled, but purely nominal. Of course, compared with the second option it is already much better - anyone who came to the personal page, can always say - whether he likes the drawn portrait or not. But these patterns - disservice to users.

Why? Let's talk about this in the next article from the cycle.

And now - I wish you not to lose in searches of your happiness.

(To Be Continued)

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