Saturday, December 6, 2008

Searching For Your Soul Mate

If you are ready to go on a soul mate search, it means that you have been ready for a long time to find the one love of your life and to be happy. A soul mate search is a very romantic idea, because it means that you are going to be searching for that one person that you will be happy with for the rest of your life, the one person who you cannot live without. However, it might be a very long soul mate search, if you aren't sure what you are looking for.

When it comes right down to it, a soul mate search is going to be much easier if you have a better idea of what a soul mate is. Lots of people think that they know what a soul mate is, and they believe in the romantic notion of the fact that each person was created with another person in mind. Of course, this might be true. But it also might have a lot to do with body chemistry, and other things such as upbringing and beliefs.

Basically put, those that go on a soul mate search are looking for the one person that they can live with for their entire lives. There are lots of things that you should be looking for if you are going on a soul mate search and if you know them before you start, it will make your soul mate search a lot easier to complete.

First of all, a soul mate should be someone who finds you attractive. Of course, many people confuse this with the idea of lust. A soul mate is someone who might have those lusty feelings for you, but who will also find you attractive inside and out. This is someone who is going to be attracted to your body, your mind, your spirit, and everything else about you. This is an important point to clarify, because many people waste a lot of time during their soul mate search with the people who are simply in it for the lust.

Next, the person that you are looking for during your soul mate search should have a lot of things in common with you. Of course, it is always fun to be with someone who is completely different than you are, but in the end, having things in common is going to be a lot better than not having anything in common. This relates back to the lust factor again. After the lust wears off, there has to be something that you have that will tie you to the person you found during your soul mate search. If you don’t have anything in common, you might end up realizing that you have made a mistake during your search.

Another thing to remember is that often you won't find your soul mate right away during your soul mate search. You might have to look at a few people before you find the one that you are truly looking for. However, once you do, you will find out that nothing can be better.

By: Robert Johansen -34154
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Robert Johanssen is a Psychologist and expert on communication, dating and relationships. Visit his website Soul mate Secrets for information on how to find your soul mate

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