Attracting women is not necessarily a difficult thing. However, if you do everything right, but one thing wrong, you will kill the attraction dead. Attraction is a "true-false" deal, not a "multiple choice"- 100% is an "A," 99% is an "F."
Most men understand on some level that if you want to create initial attraction with women, you have to smile. Almost every attraction and seduction guru out there tells men they have to learn to smile at women - and they are half right. You DO have to smile in order to attract women, but if you do it the wrong way (like most men do) you will repel women.
When most guys hear "put a smile on your face and you will attract women," they plaster a dopey salesman's grin on their face. They show their teeth to every woman they meet and then wonder why these women won't give them the time of day. You see, not only do you have to smile in order to attract women, you've got to smile the right way.
The #1 Way to Stop Attracting Women
Let's talk about the wrong way first. When it comes to attracting women, it is just as important to get rid of your attraction killers as it is engage in attractive behavior. Like I said, you can do everything right, and one thing wrong, and that one thing will kill the attraction dead.
When most men smile at a woman, they do it either in a phony way, or in a "sterile" way. What I mean by sterile is this: they see a woman, and smile at her, but they hold back their feelings of attraction. The woman sees a guy with a safe, neutral smile, a guy who reminds her of Mr. Rodgers, and she smiles back, keeps on walking and that's that.
The Right Way to Smile So You Can Instantly Attract Women
The right to smile at an attractive woman is to use what I call the "naughty boy smile." This is a smile that immediately transmits to her "this interaction IS about attraction, and I make no excuses for my desires as a man." It is often more of a seductive, almost arrogant smirk than a smile, with you looking at her straight in the eye.
The emotion you transmit to her when you do this is, "I'm comfortable with myself as a man. You're a sexy woman, and yes I'm attracted to you." Instead of making the interaction sneaky or covert, it's an overt interaction. Your attitude should be, "YES, this is about attraction, and yes I know we will both enjoy it."
When you smile at a woman in this manner, with this intent, the effect is electrifying. In a split second, you're put into a completely different category of man, far away from the nice, safe, predictable guys she's used to meeting. Suddenly, you're a bit dangerous, a bit unpredictable, and completely attractive.
How Do I Know The "Naughty Boy" Smile Will Instantly Attract Women?
For years and years I used the safe guy smile in my futile attempts to attract women. Finally, I started paying attention to the gestures and facial expressions of friends who were very good at attracting women. Everywhere we went they had girls around them. The one thing that stood out like a beacon in the night was they all had their own version of the "naughty boy smile," and they all used it to devastating effect.
When I started to put it work myself, the reactions I got from women were immediately different than what I'd gotten before. All of a sudden women WERE interested in me. Instead of being just a "safe friend" and a "nice guy," women thought of me as an attractive man… and my life got much, much more exciting.
Is This All You Need to Know About Attracting Women?
Of course not. If that was the only thing you need to know about attracting women, then I wouldn't be able to create eBooks, special reports and a controversial email newsletter to help you attract women now. But knowing how to smile the right way IS a vital piece of the attraction puzzle. If you start implementing it, you will see immediate results. It will take you a bit of time to find your own, unique "naughty boy smile." But once you have it, you have it. And then your interactions with women will start to take on a very different… and very exciting… tone. The "naughty boy smile" is one of the most powerful things I've ever discovered when it comes to instantly attracting women.
By: J Alanis
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