Sunday, May 11, 2008

The Profile On The Dating Site. How To Make It Attractive? (Part II)

Well, you decided finally to post your profile on the site. And now let us return to the question - What is bad in ready templates. However, I think you have already guessed why. It is template.

Of course, to construct from ready cubes is more easier, but we will not receive the particular originality in this way. The same with the profile. Thousands of questionnaires similar to yours by its structure. Tens or even hundreds of questionnaires - similar by data (did you think you were the only person with the height of 170, dark hair and weighing 68 kg?). And how to draw an interest of a person here? The correct answer - to distinguish from the general crowd.


Show your individuality. Yes, you will have to overcome your fear. I understand that to be like everybody and nothing allocated - is nice, cozy and there is no any liability. But sitting in this nice and cozy environment it is hard to expect that you will be noticed and appreciated. This means that the chances to fulfill your dream to arrange own personal life - are not too high.

Again, remember about two-way-search - while you're looking for - somebody is looking for you.Therefore, let us show this world your uniqueness.

And we'll begin… It is strange, but we will have to start all the same with physique - height, weight, hair color and other characteristics. I hope, here it is understandable that it is worth to specify the real characteristics, well, or at least close to reality. When it comes to the first meeting, you do not want to see on the face of your interlocutor surprised or, even worse, frustration. So, just reality, no matter how bitter it was.

However, to sweeten it may be the fact that among those billions of people who inhabit our planet, will surely are the pair of tens of thousands those who like your type, no matter how unusual it may be. Purely on the basis of mathematical calculations. Pointed our physical measurements, continue filling. On each site - there are their own gadgets and requirements for completing the questionnaires. Therefore, for example, will address some "common" things.

Let's start with at least a question: "What will do in your spare time", with a choice of answers. Try not to use these options, even if your "option" is there. Be original - tell about this in your own words. Do you like to walk the streets in your spare time? Do not select the option "To walk the streets", write something like "Go along the streets, watching the city life" or "go for a walk and think".

First, the phrase will be caught by the sight, which has long been tired of endless "walk the streets" in hundreds of profiles. Secondly, the construction of the phrase can tell much about you to smart people, and you do not need stupid, am I right?

And finally, thirdly, if we build such a sentence, for the person interested in you it would be easier to start a conversation. We also will talk about it a bit more. The purpose of your profile is to try to motivate people.

And for this, let us use all means: in the story about yourself try to raise a question, controversial assertion, or just funny catch. Assume the same phrase: "Go through the streets, watching the city" - not only tells the reader what you are for personality, but also may cause her a question - what's that you can see in the streets of your city. And on this issue already, you can easily develop a long dialogue about the fate of humanity and imperfections of the universe. Or if you are not satisfied with this, the more landing things - why do I like an ice cream and do not like Saddam Hussein, as you would want.

Do you see the magnitude of opportunity? If to arrange such questions and accents in the right places in your profile, you can easily set the tone for your entire future conversation and now to program all the mood with which people will write you first "Hello". Light sadness? Unbridled merriment? The desire to argue or attempt to help? All this is set in your profile right now.

Want to know more about this? This is in the next part.

In the meantime, I wish you to be not lost in the search for love.

(To Be Continued)

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