Friday, May 16, 2008

The Profile On The Dating Site. How To Make It Attractive? (Part IV)

In the previous parts, I jotted in general terms a rough outline of how to make your profile a little more attractive. The main thing is that you were able to overcome your fear of your own personality, to stand out from the crowd, to find the strength to be an original personality. However, to finish with this only, I would be somewhat premature. There are still a few points which you should know about.

The first point - is, the photo, of course. This is precisely what attracts attention to your questionnaire. It is most people judge by it - whether it worth to look inwards or not. well. Of course, you may not to put it, but there are not so little people who have chosen such a decision, and usually they do not represent anything interesting, so the habitu of such sites simply miss all those profiles where there are no photographs. Many websites even have a special feature - "to show the profiles with photographs only". So you have to look for a suitable picture. Again, preferably from the recent past. The ideal option would be to make a special photo. You can have a professional photographer.

Try to choose a style of photograph met the style of your profile. Agree, a lady in the bikini and a remark in the profile that she is looking for a man "just for friendship", is causing some dissonance in thoughts. If you know how to use Photoshop, try to quietly fix the disadvantages of photo. Do not know how? Then even not try - a couple of poor strokes, of course, can correct your photo, but a meticulous visitor will think: "So, therefore, know how to imagemaker, interesting, what is also corrected in this photo?"

It is not worth to adorn much the reality, I certainly understand - we all want to be ideal. But this picture may cause a distrust - whether it is real? Had I ever seen her (he) somewhere in the open spaces of the Internet? And all the same in every human soul is a fear - "Shoot, what a beautiful she is, perhaps will not even want to speak with me". So please be simpler. Of course, to choose the candid amateur photograph with red eyes, where it is unclear whether the shadow of a tree or someone caught you a paint - is not worth it. Pick a reasonable balance.

And the last question - regards the nickname on the site. Yes, you guessed. Please enlighten. You can be like everybody and write your name and surname. Normal option. You can try to stand out and write something like "Kitten" or "Flower" - this option will come if you are exactly sure that no one has this. But I think the best option is in the style of your profile. Let it be one name only, but if you will play well on this in the questionnaire, telling interesting about your name, it would be much stronger than any "Pussy-cat", "Pretty" and "Super-Macho".

In general, that is all. Of course, not all is stated on this enormous subject. But the main thing, I think you now know. And I hope this will help you.

A bit of grumbling about theme, which should be better missed.

However, as it is shown by the general practice, the best way to stand out on the site - is not to full out with all of the above, but simply to put a winning picture (for girls - preferably naked, for men - with a beautiful inflated trunk). The second step - to write about your imaginary earnings. Write that you're looking for whom would you ride your own car with, and at least ten messages a day you'll keep receiving. Be more accessible - and your box will be overcrowded. The people are now strange and even are ready for a photo from a porn site, naively believing that there is the owner of profile. Do you need such attention - it's up to you. But believe me, to find the person of your dream on the site - it is feasible. While it is very difficult (if doing nothing).
And I believe that you will succeed.

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