The Profile On The Dating Site. How To Make It Attractive? (Part III)

Let us work on our profile. Continue to explore the opportunities we are offered. Let's take the graph "Your passions". It would seem, just a fountain of opportunities to stand out among the similar to yourself.

But why did majority of the representatives of humanity put in the profile something trite like "listen to music, go to movies, reading books"? Billions of people with ears, like to listen to music, billions of sighted people love to go to movies, to read the books and now even the blind can do it. But to create the houses of matches, or pasting pictures of pieces of fabric - perhaps it take you only.

Are you collecting the old movies with Charlie Chaplin?
Taking the photographs of the brick walls? Like to count the passed by cars or take to invent the dishes from sausage wastes? Do write. Who knows, even if you will not find that Single, then you will surely talk to like-minded and learn which part of a sausage is best used in porridge, but what is to spare for soup.

Another interesting option - "Who I am looking for". And again, in how many questionnaires there is the trite "I'm looking for guy" or "I'm looking for girl". Are people finding suitable to seek somebody in the way of such indifference? After all, even when buying shoes they know beforehand what they are looking for. What style, what color, whose production. No one will say- "I am looking for shoes", but such answers are in order of things in profiles. Strangely, you do not find?

Even if you don't care about who is your munion of fortune, even if you think that people are fully open only in personal communication, then write a testimonial in such a way that everyone who wants would be able to try it on himself. "I am looking for someone who could be beside, when needed, will not turn away and will not say "not now"". Simple? But each of us in our own measure of a self-delusion will suit perfectly to this definition. I just ask you, do not copy the hackneyed phrases already are drawing of mouth "I am looking for you" and "Seeking smart and cool girl" or "beautiful girl".

Once again I ask you - please be eye-catching.

All that you have now done - is fixed the patterns, proposed by site administration to something personal. Wonderful. Now move on to the more complex things. On many sites there are now an opportunities to tell about yourself in your own words. Do not miss this opportunity. Of course, this is difficult. But doable. Just imagine that you are telling a man who is listening to you carefully, to whom you want to please by all means. Do not go?

We'll change the aim. Now you are on Doomsday and your fate is decided, depending on what you tell about yourself. Well, suppose you've lost your documents, but there is a likelihood that they could be found. Overall, I think you catch the idea. Tell the truth, a bit gloss can be, but worth not become tangled in lies.

Also another option is, the story about yourself - to answer some questions in your own words. How to operate here, I think you have already caught. But please - remember another rake not to step on. If to write briefly - a little joke is better, but different than all known (your own). When every third profile in box "how do you relate to domestic animals" has the answer "Have no relatives" - this is not even sad, it is much of collective unconscious.

Therefore, go with caution on popular jokes. Sometimes, of course, when they are not out of place, and if you firmly believe that this is the case, then go ahead. But if you have any doubts, it is better not to risk.

The last article of the cycle remained, and I hope that everything I have written, would be helpful to you. Good luck in your quest.

(To Be Continued)

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